Guess who’s getting married?! I have known for a long time that I found the man I could spend the rest of my life with. Now its official- we are getting married October 1, 2016.
This is a matter of the mind, heart and soul. All three come together after much time and deliberation. This is probably the hardest decision I’ve ever made. And for my man too. The weight of it is heavy; we know it won’t always be sunshine and rainbows (especially when there are children to take care of!). Slowly but surely, we’ve allowed ourselves to be vulnerable, to take care of each other, to love each other unconditionally. Do you know how awesome that is?!
In an unspoken agreement, he is the leader of our ‘to be’ family. All major decisions run through him, yet he never makes them without my input. It is a beautiful relationship and the first time I have had the flow of truly ‘being on the same page.’ I have chosen a real leader to follow. He’s an incredibly gentle and brilliant man.
I laugh because if you ask him, he would probably say that I make all the rules. Which means what? A balance of power? Maybe that’s the secret of marriage…& leadership?